Survival Tips
Saturday, March 20th, 2010We managed to do a few lessons this week despite my increasing ickiness. I am grateful the older three kids are big enough to grab the proper books (get your spelling, grab your math binder & my teaching book) and I can have them bring me those items while I lay on the couch (or floor or in bed, depending on the day!) Because the texts we use are pretty self explanatory I don’t need to do a lot of prep before hand most of the time – I can see what concept to cover and have them do their work while I watch and check. This week we got some grammar lessons done, spelling (including tests) and a few math lessons each. We’ve checked out some fun science books and videos and for our social studies this month we’re learning the States song – the older three have memorized the first 15 states in alphabetical order. I have them sing it with a map or our states quilt out and they’ll point to them, review the capitols, etc. I’m counting that as a geography lesson.
(I feel kinda lazy about it but I’m thankful I’m able to do any lessons in my first trimester.) We’ve not done any new piano lessons but I can turn on Pandora radio and tell them the composer we’re listening to and I’m having the older two both practice the songs they already learned on the piano. Art has been me being tolerant of them emptying the craft cart and creating elaborate messes in the sunroom with glitter, an entire bottle of glue, and a lot of popsicle sticks. Kit also got a lot of fun art books from the library they are loving, including some M.C. Escher – fun illusion images & the kids are discussing the patterns and details and such.
Kit’s been doing a trip to the library a couple times a week and I put tons of books on hold – some PBS kids’ shows like Reading Rainbow & Super Why so they’re relatively educational. I love that even if I’m laying here incapacitated the kids are sitting around me reading books. Emy’s been “reading” me a lot of books lately, too, and I smile and nod my head and say, “Mmm, hhmm,” with my eyes closed to make the rocking room stop and she’s content. I feel horrid, and I feel horrid about feeling horrid which should cancel out the mommy guilt, right?
So things helping with homeschooling while pregnant:
- putting tons of books on hold at the library that I know will be fun and educational and engaging. Science, history, art, books about a new baby, even some about food allergies.
- having the kids play in the yard as much as possible (and just making peace with the tracked in dirt, they’re getting better about removing their shoes after stomping through our former garden patch that’s now their much beloved dirt patch for digging.) Always valuable.
- educational DVDs for when I cannot sit up and need them engaged.
- simple lunches so I can spend my small amount of morning energy on lessons & play and not meal prep.
- ditto dinners. We have a list on the fridge of menu ideas that we have the ingredients for – Kit picks one in the morning (since it doesn’t matter what we pick, chances are it won’t sound any good to me by dinner time) and we try to prep it before he leaves for work. He’s home in the afternoon and makes dinner.
- educational games on the computer. Emy is loving Starfall, as they all do. And several of the other links to the left are fun sites they can explore mostly on their own (I still keep them in the same room with me and they know if they accidently leave the game site they have to tell me immediately.)
- Hulu & Pandora for shows (Electric Company and some non-educational but much loved shows like The Littles) and Pandora for soothing classical music which counts as composer study.
- games: divide them into teams and see who can build me a taller tower, a longer train track, draw me a picture of this, find me this item like a scavenger hunt. I can do this from the couch.
- a 2 minute tornado: twice a day (afternoon & before bed usually) we set a timer and have them do a 2 minute tornado – everyone cleans up a certain room as fast as they can. This helps me stay sane. Joseph isn’t much help at this point, he does sing the “Clean up, clean up!” song while everyone runs around him but the four kids can get a room presentable in less than 2 minutes and doing it as a team gets them all motivated and they know it’s JUST two minutes and working against the timer so it makes it a game. Now if they want to watch a show they know I’ll say sure – after a two minute tornado. It works for the living room, sunroom, bedrooms. I do NOT advise it for dining rooms or kitchens since kids rushing with dishes never ends well. But it helps me a lot to at least see a room mostly clean quickly, I feel less like a slacker mom. Then I just make sure I wipe down the kids’ bathroom every couple days and Kit has completely taken over the kitchen and dining room for me. Meaning the house is not the state of despair I feared when I knew the sick was hitting and that does wonders for my mental health.
We won’t discuss the mountain of laundry in my bedroom. I keep saying I’ll fold it all one of these evenings but I get so sick in the evening and Kit is only getting work done from home after the kids are in bed since he’s in full time Dad mode in the afternoon with me being sick. So he needs to work nights and then he gets up early with the kids to make breakfast and clean everything before I wake up. I will get to that laundry! I will. Once a week the kids help me sort and we try to get it hung up but for some reason that laundry keeps coming.
It’s been a good lessons in household care for them and in sorting (Ben, sort the grown ups from the kids; Mo, sort the girls from the boys; Christopher, match up all the socks.) That’s still a lesson, right?
Most of all I’m trying to relax and remember I’m almost 10 weeks along and in another month I will be in my (usually) much more energetic second trimester and back on my feet. I know this is a brief stage (though it feels eternal when I’m sick) and I know the kids are not going to be behind at all with their education because of this and all of them are learning important skills for the home and life. I mean it.
All five of them have come up to me every day while I lay here trying to be chipper and all have given me hugs and kisses, pats on the cheek. It’s adorable and sweet and compassionate and when I hear them pray that the new baby will grow healthy and strong and Mom will feel better soon I know these kids are going to be even more thoughtful from enduring this experience. They are fantastic kids and this will be okay, even if schooling is happening in a less traditional format for now.
