Some Resources for Overwhelmed Parents

So we realize a lot of people are now facing having kids at home who aren’t normally homeschooled (or home educated, as they call it here in the UK.) We have some links to the right that our kids have used over the years, and some new ones we’re learning about below.

Not that I can offer much reassurance in this time, but I can offer opinions that don’t count for much… I say do what you got to do. If you’re working from home and you’ve got little ones and school age kids then it’s just about keeping your head above water. For some kids they thrive on structure and this is going to be a chaotic upheaval. You may need some decompress (holiday/time off) to let everyone adjust and cope with the emotional stress of these rapid changes – or your child may do best (and you may do best) with trying to keep some consistency: chores, bedtime, wake up routine, some designated “school” time, outdoor time, etc. There is no one right answer and way to do this, and it may need to change day-to-day as we see how long this may go on for… but it’s unrealistic, in my opinion, to anticipate being able to do work full time AND homeschool kids AND keep your house clean AND process this major global upheaval AND the dozens of other responsibilities we as parents are juggling when things are going as normal. This is not normal.

Continue reading

Spring 2013

Mon:
math
memorization/cursive
art
phonogram flashcards
FHE

Tue:
math (CM)
reading (EM)
grammar (MB)
spelling
PE

Wed:
math (BE)
latin
typing
spelling enrichment
AD/Scouts

Thu:
math (CM)
reading (ME)
grammar (MB)
literature
PE

Fri:
math (BE)
history
spelling test
swimming

Sat:
reports (C)
science

Sun:
journals
letters

Fall Line Up

Mon: Art
Cursive First
Memorization
Math (all)
SWR phonograms

Tue: States/geography
Math (CM)
spelling
grammar (MB)
reading (E)
PE

Wed: Piano/Music
Prima Latina
math (BE)
blog post (C)
Activity Days/Scouts

Thur: Literature – Shakespeare
Math (CM)
grammar (MB)
Typing (MBE)
writing (C)
PE

Fri: History
Spelling Test
math (BE)
reading (E)
Swimming

Sat: Science
write report ©

Sun: ThadenPierce plan
journals
interview w/parents (C)

Fall 2012

Board & Cards

Those are my strangely solemn children in front of our dry erase board. It has days of the week, our “special” subject, and then any activities that day (therapy, playdates, doctor visits.) The last column is the dinner menu for the week.

The green half sheet is our routine and the small cards are each of the school age kids’ assignments for each day of the week. This is the wall in our kitchen leading to the hall so the kids know after breakfast/chores to grab their card and see what they need to do. It’s helping life be more organized!

Routine

I was all fired up about how we were going to get so much book work done during the cold, winter months. It’s been in the 70s. 🙂 We’re playing outside for hours on end, which is way more important than some math and grammar lessons! When the weather gets cold we’ll get back to that textbook stuff.

I try each semester to review and revise our schedule so here’s what we’ve got starting the end of this month when our activities resume post-“winter” break. We don’t actually have a “schedule” because most of these things aren’t tied to a specific time, except outside of the home activities. This just reminds me and the kids of the rhythm of our days.

* Get up, get dressed, make your bed, make sure your room is picked up.
* Breakfast, then chore time (and EVERYONE helps clean up for 15 minutes – breakfast dishes, start laundry, anything left from last night.)
(1)
* Kit leaves for work after family prayer, we start exercising (yoga, big muscle movement stretches) and then circle time.
* Lessons, with me usually nursing at some point in here. The little kids are doing various busy activities. They’ll snack on fruits and veggies while they’re working/playing. Lessons are maybe 2 hours between the four kids? Three if we’re distracted.
* Clean up from lessons, lunchtime, clean up meal stuff.
(2)
* Storytime (read book together, picture book for little kids and chapter from novel with all of them.) Then quiet time – they all have to be in their rooms for quiet reading. Miss O’s our only napper now so this is ideally when she naps and I get my scripture study and lunchtime.
* Specials – art, music, literature, history, science.
(3)
* Snack & playtime.
* Kit home! Dinner prep, clean up from play stuff.
* Dinner, dishes clean up.
(4)
* Family time
(5)
* Bedtime routine – snacks, pjs, teeth, scriptures and prayer, stories
* Bed for kids, grown up time!

(1) Fridays right after breakfast we head out for swimming for an hour, which bumps things back. Other days we have various therapies that may delay this.
(2) Monday through Thursday this is staggered depending on therapy schedules.
(3) Thursdays is co-op and Fridays we often have playdates in the afternoon. Other afternoons there may be special library activities.
(4) Tues, Wed, Thurs we have an early dinner because of PE, scouts, and activity days.
(5) Evenings can be changed due to meetings for various family members!

All of this can be changed if we have family we’re going to see, a doctor visit, etc. But whenever possible if we’re home we try to stick to this, and I can see what a difference in makes for the kids to have some sense of consistency and routine. Each of them has a card on the dry erase board that lists their school assignments for each day so when it’s time for lessons they already know what books to grab and where to get started. It’s still a learning process for us, but we’re getting the hang of it!

To give a rough timeline breakfast is around 7am, lessons start around 9:30am, lunch is noon, snack is 2:30ish, dinner is 5pm (earlier Tue/Thur), bedtime routine is 7pm and they’re all asleep (except C) by 8pm.

If it’s a nice day in the winter we ditch lessons and play outside instead. If we’ve got friends visiting, we just skip work for that day. We set it up so that we only need to really do lessons 3x a week so we get at least two freebies a week.

Routine vs. Schedule

At least three times a year I write up a schedule for us, and it lasts usually about 36 hours before it gets tossed. I am giving up the schedule in favor of a routine. I realized we do have a routine, it just doesn’t follow a set time schedule! So here goes, our 2011-2012 school year “routine” (for at least the next 36 hours!)

– wake up, get dressed, make bed, clean room
– breakfast and morning chores
– dad to work, circle time, start lessons*
– snack, little kids play, big kids keep doing lessons
– lunch & clean up
– storytime as family, then quiet time in beds/rooms
– special lessons: art, music, history, literature, science
– snack & playtime**
– dad home from work, dinner prep
– dinner & chores
– family time***
– bedtime routine: stories, snacks, pajamas, teeth, scripture & prayer
– BED!

*MWF there are therapies from 8 to 10am depending on day/kid.
**MW is therapy at 2:30pm, Th it’s co-op.
***TWTH there’s PE, activity day & scouts all between 5 and 8:30pm.

Schedule Cards & Screen Time

The schedule cards have been a huge, HUGE hit. Each child has the card with their name and week’s lessons on it (language, math, etc – it’s subjects, not specific assignments.) I put a magnet on the back of each and hung it on our dry erase board where we have days of the week and any special events going on or appointments. I also list who has a date that week with Mom or Dad, and any notes for the day. We try to have the menu, too, but that’s a work in progress.

We also added a checklist on the board for their morning routine (which they have posted in their bedroom.) They know when they come out they need to be dressed, have rooms clean and beds made and then it’s chores, breakfast, and lessons. They know the bedtime routine perfectly, they correct us if we skip any mistake, but the morning routine seems to be something we all forget. 🙂

So after breakfast/chores when they have a tendency to wander off and play in the sunroom or read a library book (which is totally fine!) I can remind them to make sure they get their card done before lunch. We sit down for circle time (when I remember, I’m so bad about that lately) and I do the lessons that need my help with the younger kids but C is getting really independent and mostly needs me just to read his spelling words or help him remember how to do an outline for something he’s read when he’s working on his writing assignments. (Which are also very, very vague. Read something and write a paragraph about it. Once a month he has to turn in a one page paper about a topic he picks and I help him with outline that and formatting.)

The point being I get distracted, believe it or not. 😀 So the cards help me remember which child needs help with which lesson each day.

The other new discovery is that if they ask for screen top (laptop, Wii, movie) they know they cannot have it before their card is completed and chores done. Lessons are getting done faster than ever!

But to help ensure they don’t finish lessons in 30 minutes and spend 3 hours on various screens we are starting a token system. AFTER the card is done they get tokens, each worth 15 minutes of screen time. No tokens before cards are done, once cards are done they can redeem tokens from the little jar. If they are watching someone else play a game that still counts towards their own screen time (it makes me crazy when one child is playing a game and the others sit there watching, paralyzed by the magic rays of the screen.) Educational games count towards screen time, and the iPad and iPhone and Wii and laptop. It all counts!

They also know that tokens can be lost based on my whims, the tokens are a privilege and not a right.

We’ll see how this goes but I’m optimistic… they seem to like it thus far and the cards with individual lessons has been a huge success in giving them more accountability and keeping us all on track. It’s more concise than the schedules we kept in binders and it’s constantly visible on their board, both important to me actually using them.

Along with this my “record keeping” has really gone out the window. Since our language, history and math are all a book series it’s easy to keep tabs on who has completed which and where they are in the lessons. For literature we’re keeping a list of books we read as a family and C records what he reads individually in his binder. For science, art, and music we’re not keeping a record. (We’ll work on that for science, obviously we need to make sure we keep some idea of what’s not covered yet/what we taught.) We just do projects and readings and explore.

Adding that to the agenda – figure out a more concrete way to keep tabs on science. Even if it’s sticking to a theme per year. Once they are older that will matter more – right now I don’t think it does.

Schedule Cards

I’m preparing for the addition of a fourth “student” at the end of this summer, adding Miss E into our lesson rotation as she’s turning FIVE. AAAAH! So I made these up with magnets on the back to hang on our dry erase board:

Cam

Since we school year round (and only need 180 days per year per Texas requirements) we don’t do an intensive week. We like the flexibility of adding field trips and play dates and days off when the weather is beautiful and we want to go explore outside. Here is our newest schedule and each child has a card with their work written on it. I’ll refer to the master plan but I told them each is responsible for completing their work on that card each day and I’m available to help/teach/instruct/answer questions between 9 and 11am. 🙂 Then I make lunch and we have quiet time and then in the afternoon we do specials (art, music/piano, literature, history, science) so they need to be done with the basics before lunch. (Which is absurdly easy, they can knock their lessons out quickly and get back to their fun reading and playing and adventures if they focus.)

I’m excited! I like that we’re passing more individual responsibility to kids (C & M) as they pick their own research topics per month and such. The middle ones (B & E) obviously I’m still sitting down with and giving lots-o-guidance but the big ones are really motivated to take more charge of their own studies and we’re here to help facilitate that.

In addition to the academics we do have therapy, OT, speech, PE, swimming, activity days, cub scouts, and co-op. Plus our various playdates or appointments that may throw things off, thus the beauty of a flexible schedule!

P.S. C and I are trying to figure out what grade he would be in if he attended school. If he started according to local guidelines he would have begun K in the fall of 2007 and would be entering the 4th grade. M would have started the next year and would be entering 3rd grade, B would be entering 1st and E entering K. So my boy-girl pairs are a year apart in grades and there’s 2 years between sets. J starts fall 2013 and O starts 2015 because of her fall birthday (but we’ll start her 2014 and keep them a year apart in grades, too. And because it’s easier for me to remember. Boy-girl grade apart, two years, boy-girl grade apart, two years, boy-girl grade apart. Which means when we start our next pairing we’ll have 7th, 6th, 4th, 3rd, 1st, K. When O starts.)

Not that ANY of these grades actually mean anything, it’s just we still get asked what “grade” our kids are in to give people a rough idea of development/skill level.

Subjects & Portfolios

This is not meant to overwhelm, just to give me a breakdown.

Mathematics:
– all the basics (algebra, geometry, etc)
– consumer math (shopping, budgeting, investing, interest, etc)

History:
– american history (can be part of world history or own topic)
– civics & government
– ancient civilizations (SOTW 1 & 2)
– modern civilizations (SOTW 3 & 4)
– geography (along with or separate subject)

Science:
– biology (anatomy, zoology, health & nutrition, gardening, etc.)
– chemistry
– physics
– earth (astronomy, geology, weather, etc)

Fine arts:
– music lessons
– music appreciation, composer study
– art
– art appreciation/history, artist study
– drama
– dance

English:
– phonics
– literature/reading
– penmanship
– typing & computer skills
– library skills
– spelling
– composition/writing
– grammar
– speech & debate

Physical Education:
– swim lessons/water safety
– some team sport
– health (also biology topic) to include:
– nutrition
– first aid
– hygiene and grooming

Foreign Language

Life Skills:
– Thaden Pierce plan

PORTFOLIO
– attendance records (if required)
– record of subjects taught
– list of materials & texts used
– reading lists (child’s and family reading list)
– yearly evaluations: goals met, parent assessment, any co-op teacher remarks, could include checklists of tasks accomplished (print out TEA guidelines by year and check those met?)
– photos & descriptions of activities & co-ops
– samples or photos of the child’s creative work
– work samples (written work, assignments, book reports, worksheets, etc)
– video or audio footage of child’s narrations or activities
– tests, standardized or family administered

For more ideas see this post.

Summer/Fall 2011

This fall I’ll be doing lessons with FOUR kids. EEKS! I’m trying to wrap my brain around that, and I’ve been admittedly distracted by my own doula programs & lessons. Now that I’ve only got a couple classes left to attend (CPR, breastfeeding, childbirth prep) I’m back to remembering that I’m a homeschooler! I’ve got kids to inspire and nudge towards academic enthusiasm!

SO, rough ideas in the works:

Math:
C – Saxon 65
M- Saxon 3
B – Saxon 1
E – start Saxon 1 in the fall

(I have to remind myself that B & E are only a year apart in school so there will be overlap. They were 15 months apart developmentally when she arrived so they’re like my twins in many ways.)

Language:
Everyone is using some of Teaching the Classics and IEW’s Structure & Style for literature and writing. Everyone gets a Cursive First review when warranted. We’re also using Spell to Write & Read for spelling, though I’m waiting on E to start that until January.

C – weekly: chapter/book report (on history, bio, science, art, music, or literature – his choice), write out scripture he’s memorizing; monthly – one page research paper on topic of his choice.
M – First Language Lessons for the Well Trained Mind, she’s finishing up Grade 2 and then we’ll move onto Grade 3. She’ll also write out her scripture she’s memorizing and write out a chapter/book report with assistance.
B – start FLL in the fall, focus on cursive. Memorizing (but doesn’t have to write out) scripture. Doing oral outline of keywords when we do readings.
E – start FLL next summer, start cursive in fall. Oral narration.