This list came from our Relief Society celebration last night but it was so good I wanted to share it. I’m not sure how they gathered the ideas, but full credit to them. Though I’m paraphrasing some of them…
– Read scriptures each night by candlelight.
– Wrap holiday books up and put them under the tree (if you don’t have kids like mine who will then promptly open all of them) and each night open a holiday book and read it.
– Fill Christmas stockings with love notes from family members to each other.
– Compile favorite Christmas stories from immediate and extended family and create a book to be shared.
– Place a piece of straw in a manger (make one from shoebox?) for each deed of service done.
– Do a secret santa service exchange within the family.
– Do a mini FHE the twelve nights before (or after) Christmas. In Germany I remember they started the 12 nights with Christmas Eve and then in January is the celebration of the wise men, and I think that’s a neat way to spread out the Christmas joy.
– Find a good Christmas story for children that focuses on the Savior and record yourself reading it then share with extended family.
– Play Christmas music that focuses on the Savior.
– Attend a live nativity.
– Do a family nativity.
– Study the symbolism of the common Christmas decorations (star, bell, bow, etc.)
– Deliver anonymous goodies to neighbors for twelve nights.
– Read talks from the church leaders about the holiday season.
– Provide Christmas dinner for a needy family or serve in a shelter or kitchen.
– Invite someone to attend your family gatherings who may not have family near.
– Visit a rest home or children’s hospital.
– Make something to donate to a charity, work as a family on the project.
– Create a care package for missionaries or military.
– Write thank you notes to those who serve your family throughout the year. (Add goodies. )
– Decorate with nativity sets that are safe for your children to play with – we have two nice sets up high and two play sets.
– Wrap a box with removable lid and have family write their gifts to the Savior and put them into the box. Keep it from year to year.
– Visit the temple grounds and see their lights.
– Make an advent calendar with service each day.
Heidi addition – observe St. Nicholas day and make it a special day of service to remember the Savior. Put out shoes, too, that’s fun.
Advent Ideas
– goodie making: thank you’s, service projects, etc.
– live nativity if they’re doing it? (24th)
– city square lighting if Joseph’s healthy (3rd)
– holiday movies w/treats
– advent wreath w/christmas stories & treats
– wrapping gifts
– making & sending cards
– Friend activities in red binder
– making sibling gifts
– sew Joseph’s stocking
– fireplace (we’ve never lit it)
– lebkuchen
– baptism prep
– RS dinner (1st)
– ward party? (18th)
– first presidency devotional (6th)
– stake musical (13th)
– make and send packages
– St. Nicholas Tag (shoes, service project)
Lesson Plans
– holidays around world chart
– simplified carol on piano
– memorize carol
– make lebkuchen w/minimal help
– read A Christmas Carol and do activities with co-op
I’m flipping through a magazine while nursing Joseph (taking a break from the more intense readings) and it had a holiday section – how to make your holidays less insane and more merry. I liked some of the tips and plan to implement them, along with some of our own:
– List your traditions and have everyone pick their favorite. Don’t keep doing something just because it’s tradition if no one enjoys it! I am insisting we keep our quiet and calming tradition of snacks while we light the advent candle and read stories and sing carols by candlelight. It’s a peaceful weekly tradition during December.
– Simplify: menus, gift giving, sending greetings, baking, traditions, decorating, schedules. Our goal is a peaceful holiday season in which we spend time as a family, remember what we are celebrating, and have enough quiet moments to feel the Spirit and recharge to begin a new year.
Holiday Plans:
– write up menu for major meals, holiday baking, and last minute entertaining/hostess gifts. Purchase all non-perishables and write up list for last minute perishable purchases. Keep this list, it will probably work year to year.
– write up Christmas card list & (different list) therapist and doctor thank you note list. Decide on format of card/letter, shoot photos if including, purchase stamps. We’re alternating an e-card year with a traditional mail out card. (Updated – I just pulled up our card list. There’s no way I’m going to get that many cards mailed out. I’m thinking we’ll be doing e-cards until I figure something out. 🙂 )
– pick service projects (milking the cows) and start planning/budgeting.
– write up list of who gifting to and what, we alternate siblings in my family so we’ve got all year to plan. Sometimes we purchase a gift, sometimes we make one, sometimes we do a service gift. I like having all year to think about the sibling & their family and what we can do for them.
– write up list for the kids, we’ve established a holiday budget and we’re sticking to the three gifts from parents policy (not counting stocking stuffers.) Kit and I don’t usually exchange gifts, we buy couple gifts together or we do service gifts mostly. We only need to mail a couple gifts but I like to have those things ready to go by early December, ditto for my holiday cards. Though that’s NOT happening this year, I’ve not even thought about cards yet.
– holiday outfits: this is mostly the girls, the boys wear their standard Sunday clothes but for the girls I like to get dresses that aren’t exactly the same but complement each other. Usually thrift shop finds and I keep my eyes out all year for something fun and festive. This year they’re both wearing red & black & white with some plaid and those cute new headbands.
I’m adding to this as I remember more…
Advent activity ideas from Cheryl:
Peanuts’ Countdown Calendar
1 make paper snowflakes to hang in windows
2 watch a Christmas video
3 choose one toy to give to charity
4 send a card to a friend
5 make a holiday treat for the birds
6 predict the temperature or amount of snowfall for Christmas
7 decorate your room for Christmas
8 learn a new Christmas song and sing it with someone
9 make a holiday treat to eat
10 learn how Christmas is celebrated in other countries
11 make an elf hat
12 make a phone call to someone you won’t be seeing over the holidays
13 do a favor secretly
14 make a decoration for your Christmas tree
15 read a Christmas story together with your family
16 help wrap packages
17 draw a Christmas picture
18 ask your parents about their favorite Christmas memories
19 make a marshmallow snowman
20 sit in the dark and enjoy the Christmas lights
21 learn the names of all Santa’s reindeer
22 play holiday charades
23 visit someone who can’t go out for the holidays
24 go caroling to your next-door neighbors and wish them a Merry Christmas